When Urban Meyer stood to read his “apology” at a news conference last week, he looked like the bully who was forced to say he’s sorry to the skinny schoolkid. He raced through it and sat back down, as if to say, “OK? Satisfied?”
It is the behavior of someone who only admits he’s done something wrong when forces more powerful than him insist on it. It’s the reason he was behind the curve on everything during the recent Ohio State scandal.
He lied when asked if he’d known about the 2015 abuse allegations against his assistant coach Zach Smith. Then, when confronted by the big bad truth of text messages, he admitted he had.
He insisted that, despite lying, he had done everything he was supposed to do, until the big bad investigative committee determined he hadn’t, and he mumbled his apology to “Buckeye nation.”
He figured he had done his penance, until the big bad swirl of public opinion howled that he owed less of an apology to Buckeye nation than to Courtney Smith, the woman who was allegedly abused, so on Friday he issued a statement that included a one-sentence apology to her.
You see the pattern here? Behind the curve. Contrite only when confronted. If it seems familiar, that’s because we see it in politicians, businessmen, even Presidents. Powerful people often assume largesse excuses responsibility. Let someone else take the blame. The king is, to borrow a popular phrase, too big to fail.
Maybe Meyer should have been fired. But I never thought he would be. Even when Buckeye haters were licking their chops, thinking, “Isn’t this great? He’ll be out just when the season starts and my team will have a better chance!,” I couldn’t see it.
Maybe I’ve been around too long. My naivete is gone. When it’s an assistant coach doing the evil, big-time college football offers many caves in which to crawl to safety. Sometimes, as with Joe Paterno and Penn State, the sin is too large to escape. But other times, as with this situation in Columbus, there is light at the end of a scandalous tunnel. Especially when your coach wins championships.
And so Meyer, despite ignoring repeated bad behavior by an assistant who should have been fired years ago, will only be suspended for three games that his team will likely win anyhow, and will be back in the saddle just in time, two weeks before the big showdown with Penn State.
How was Meyer not fired? Blame Ohio State
But before you hurl all your ire at Meyer, remember that he doesn’t punish himself. That was up to his university. And if you read the report from the Ohio State investigative committee, you realize that having a university determine its football coach’s fate is like letting a grandmother judge her granddaughter’s beauty contest.
Here are some of the things the committee concluded:
• That Meyer, when confronted with this scandal, immediately sought information about erasing text messages, and may well have done so.
• That despite denying any conversation between them, it was “likely” that Meyer and his wife Shelley knew and discussed the alleged domestic abuse Zach Smith inflicted on his wife over the years, and that Shelley Meyer sent her husband a text after Smith was fired, saying, “He drinks a lot and I am just not sure how stable he will be. Afraid he will do something dangerous. It’s obvious he has anger/rage issues already.”
• That Meyer was aware of Smith’s repeatedly awful behavior, from taking high school coaches to a strip club — quite possibly an NCAA violation — to having sex with a staff member, to taking lewd photos of himself on a team trip to the White House, yet never reported this behavior to higher-ups nor dismissed Smith until last month.
• That Meyer, in the words of the committee, “has cast doubt on his own honesty, in a way that reflects adversely on him, the football program, and Ohio State.”
Read that again. Meyer “has cast doubt on his own honesty, in a way that reflects adversely on him, the football program, and Ohio State.”
That sounds like the thing they read just before saying, “Therefore, we are dismissing the coach from our program.”
Instead, he was suspended for three games. And by the end of the year, if he’s hoisting a trophy, few in Buckeye nation will even care or want to hear about it.
Don’t blame Meyer for that. Blame Ohio State.
Meyer acts like he’s above reproach
I don’t believe the school was ever going to fire the man who brought them a national championship in 2014 and has never finished less than tied for first place in the Big Ten East, not unless they found undeniable complicity in the domestic violence that’s at the core of this whole thing.
And there are some who argue, not without merit, that a coach of a major football program can’t be accountable for every single thing an assistant coach does, especially when that assistant coach is squirming to keep things secret.
I get it. But the truth is, the system Meyer freely works under demands he be responsible for such behavior. His contract explicitly calls for immediate reporting of abuses by anyone within the program. That’s the deal he signed. Had this been an NCAA violation issue — and how this isn’t is still a head-scratcher — they’d have been looking at every hamburger that an assistant coach bought for a recruit. And Meyer might have been held accountable for it. Remember, he replaced a coach who left because his players were exchanging memorabilia for free tattoos.
Instead, despite charges that Zach Smith repeatedly roughed up his wife, including when she was pregnant, Meyer hid behind the fact that Smith was never formally charged (and we all know how little that has to do with whether abuse actually took place) or that it was, in his words, a “he said she said” situation.
And the investigative committee actually concluded that Meyer’s bald-faced lying about what he knew might have been a result of his “periodically taken medicine that can negatively impair his memory, concentration and focus.”
Really? I don’t see him forgetting many plays on the sidelines.
Medicine? Honestly? If you read the 23-page report, you see an investigation that did what it was supposed to do, unearthed a long list of troubling behavior, then refused to walk the plank of its own ship, saying essentially, ‘It’s a close call, but Coach Meyer really does have a sensitivity to the issue of domestic violence.’ “
Maybe. But the facts only show he has a sensitivity to getting caught in cover-ups, and only apologizes when left with no option. That’s not the pattern of a man who sees the responsibility of power. It’s the pattern of a man who thinks power puts him above it.
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Your previous article concerning the “free press” and this article begs the question….. how long should it take the “free press” to get it right? You must still stand by the position that Joe Paterno covered-up the crimes charged to Jerry Sandusky. Sorry Mitch but that is incredible! There has been and continues to be mountains of evidence to the contrary. Let me give you just a few of the salient facts that have been available from almost “day1” but the “free press” continues to ignore.
….the PA AG lied in the Grand Jury Presentment that initiated all of the furor. Compare Mike McQuarey testimony in the Sandusky trial to the “script” of his testimony in the Grand Jury Presentment. Remember the information in a Presentment is a report written by the Prosecutor describing the testimony…check with your attorneys. The transcript of the trial is actual testimony. During the trial M McQ testified he never used the words…”erection”….”insertion” and other similar sexual words. There is an email available to the public in which M McQ complains to the Prosecutor that what they claimed he said in the Presentment was not his testimony in the GJ proceedings. Keep in mind a “Presentment” to report a GJ’s findings is only permitted in 8 states…MI is not one of them. You might ask..”didn’t the members of the GD approve the “story in the Presentment”? NO…it was the next GJ which didn’t even hear the testimony that approved the Presentment!
…..M McQ’s father and his father’s friend Dr Dranov, both medical professionals testified that they met with Mike the evening of the supposed incident and that “Mike couldn’t tell us what he saw”. Remember they both had the legal responsibility to report any information of this nature to the proper authorities.
…..but the best for last Mitch. In spite of the Prosecutions best effort to fabricate a crime, of all the charges against Jerry Sandusky, this is the only charge for which he was acquitted!
The law suit by the the state of PA against the NCAA resulted in volumes of communications between the Governor’s office, the “new” Penn State administration, the NCAA and Louis Freeh being made public. There was absolutely nothing “independent” about his investigation. The NCAA didn’t back down on the sanctions out of the goodness of their heart. Had this trial continued and those on the NCAA Executive Committee been subpoenaed the extent of this conspiracy wold have been exposed to the public The PSU Board of Trustees still refuses to make the Free Report public. So much for transparency!
I’m sure you are wondering………yes I am a PSU alum for almost 60 years. I first met Joe not long after leaving PSU when I helped him recruit a couple of kids from my old high school……the alumni was allow to do that in those days. I was just a 21 year old kid myself and I sat in the meeting with these kids, Joe and Rip Engle. I thought I had died and gone to heaven! In addition one of my best friends from high school, Joe Sara who has since passed, was a longtime ass’t. coach. Needless to say I had a little more than a casual insight of the PSU football program.
It was said that PSU was trying to avoid bad publicity by covering up this story. I would only ask you to “google” Rashard Casey. He was an African American kid that that came out of the inner city in NJ and in the early 2000s was playing at PSU. He was charged with attacking an off duty NJ police man, which he denied. Joe obviously interviewed Rashard and concluded he was innocent. The “free press”, with ESPN leading the way, crucified Joe…..”Paterno only cares about winning”. Casey was later found innocent and won a six figure lawsuit against NJ. Casey was later quoted as saying “Joe said I believe you because you’re a good person”.
If ever the “free press” has been needed expose the truth… this is the case. Not only to exonerate Joe Paterno but to expose the conspiracy of the PA Governor, PA AG, the NCAA, the PSU BOT and Louis Freeh. Thanks for listening Mitch.